But the food situation there is brutal. Even more embarrassing was when she gave it back after I was getting changed out of my hospital gown. people who have a capacity for self-reflection and owning their mistakes tell stories where theyre a**holes. I am always fascinated by cultural differences of all sorts between countries but our reaction to nudity (our own or others) has a special resonance as I cannot understand why an American, for example, should feel any more vulnerable being naked than, say, a French person when visiting a doctor in France. And in France Ive never seen a nurse in the room with the doctor like there is in the US. A friend of a friend went to jump over a metal fence and slipped. Kinda made me tear up a bit. A very interesting article. I dont know why they do it. Syphilis is an STD that is transmitted by oral, genital and anal sex. We went to visit a friend of his from high school, who is nearing the end of her time in medical school. When my boyfriend attempted to say that that is inappropriate conduct, the other French people there agreed with the medical student and said that doctors are within their right. I think certain people have predispositions to being out of line. I go to the doctor, and apparently, I need an ultrasound. Being comfortable but finding a way to push yourself. Drinking iced coffee when its cold out. When its time to get ready for the doctor and start undressing, shell watch my rather slow, yet somewhat embarrassing process getting all those warm snug clothes all off with the nurses help. I'd worry about whatever issues her career might entail re: burnout on sex and emotional intimacy, crazy subscribers, doxxing, etc. This a long, slow process for me me and she seems to enjoy seeing my medical plight begin as a male, but does help me undressing completely, especially during the cold winter months when Im wearing layers of warm and snug winter outer attire and ballet style underwear. ", "Ive actually had soju (weak liquor) made in North Korea. When I realized what I was doing, I quickly peeled my face away and apologized frantically. Maybe women would be less stressed if they stepped up to the plate on that equality thing and didnt label all men as being untrustworthy. The doctor was a woman which I was kinda glad about but she had a male medical student with her. Gynecologists And Urologists Share Their Most Embarrassing Patient Stories, Specific cuisine, so not what food you can buy in the country, then its absolutely hands down Dutch food. Eesh. The purpose of cystoscopy surveillance is to inspect and examine for bladder cancers. I bet that happens everywhere though. ", "Mongolian is definitely the worst cuisine I have ever had. Hard to explain, I just find a good nose really attractive. We turned and every time the patient coughed, urine shot out about two feet. Last time I was at the gyno, my doctor was getting ready to start the exam while her assistant was opening one of the disposable tools. Just let it slam. As an American male and being helped by getting any snug and sexy attire off become just a natural happening with a French or European female doctor. You should be allowed to keep your bra on (apart from during the breast exam) and be given a sheet. We refuse to be exposed unnecessarily and your attitude encourages their dismissive attitude. It was refreshing, and a fun conversation! Hi Richard, glad you found my post interesting. Can you, as a partner, accept this side of a lover? I get erections in situations even when I am not sexually tempted. I dont want to be naked if I dont have to, and even then, they could give us a gown or something. ", "I was taking the bus to work one night from my classes and there was a guy standing a couple feet away from me. I powered through that shit, because when the guys with PhDs tell you to do something I like to assume its because they fucking mean it. Im from the UK but I worked as a doctor in France for two years and I agree 100% that attitudes regarding patient modesty are completely different in France. Perhaps I have misunderstood your intention. I had a 3:15 p.m. appointment at the physical therapist for a persistent knot in my back along with a few other issues (its totally cheap to go, so why not) and learned right away that its best to wear a loose shirt that gives him easy access to my back if I dont want to strip down up top. I thinks sometimes its the fear of the unknown that is the issue and not knowing whats next or whats expected of you causes even more stress. Sorry for the long reply! Too bad you need to have surgery.. Theres certainly a much more relaxed view of nudity and gowns are typically only provided to people admitted into hospital. For you Y-chromosome transports out there what this means is that they take this big cyberpunk dildo, shove it right the hell up your cooter and then sort of root around in there like its a fucking grab bag. The assistant was having some issues and as soon as I got in the stirrups, the assistant said loudly, 'Man, this one's a stinker!'. after she told me to take everything off. Thank y'all for the courage! None. I wasnt given a gown or anything to cover up with. I know that feeling, as the same thing happened to me at a skin doctor specialist. Back in middle school, I got kicked in the balls during a soccer game. Sorry you had the same experience. I remember wearing rather snug, warm outer snowsuit and leotards underneath. No nurse, nothing. I definitely would be the kind of person to say something if I wasnt comfortable with a situation. I climb upstairs and find some Tylenol, and I take more than the recommended dosage. Great way to start a career of phallic disappointment. The radiologist has apparently forgotten that I came in to get my ovaries checked out in the first place, because one of them has become a tiny cylindrical torture machine, and the stupid bitch puts her hand on my abdomen while shes talking, pushes the wand further into my downstairs, and in a burst of sudden, excruciating pain I piss all over her. She offered me a gown, I asked why, she said it was purely for my comfort, and I said I didnt need it. First off, for those who dont know what a diva cup is, its a reusable silicone cup you put in your vagina while menstruating. The baby was blocking the exit, so the fluid they pumped into me wasnt coming back out. Although this is where it gets tricky. See how you start to overthink these things? My doctor is a French female and does treat me as a male. While I did not understand much of the conversation (French love to speak in French regardless of knowing there is someone who doesnt speak French in the room), my boyfriend told me later he was glad that I couldnt because I would have said something rude. . ", "Never again. Your story about the med students conversations is horrifying!! And I agree that a good doctor should be understanding and accommodate different customs. It should be easy enough hopefully! I always have much less medical anxities, when be examined by a female doctor anytime. You get used to it, as a male after a few serious time consuming visits and medical exams by her. Wait until they've been around you a few times and are comfortable in their skin around you. Im like no way in hell, dude! Wanting to see the best in everyone is not a crime. ", "If we are in a relationship and I love you. She claimed it lightened the mood in a generally depressing profession. My kids struggle mightily to ever admit fault and just apologize to each other when theyve done something wrong. I had prostate removed because of cancer in 20-2. ", "Cold noodles and whatever the hell pine mushrooms are. ", "Why does she have an OF? Im sorry if my original comment implied nobody wanted you nerds. WebHe probably tells colleagues this story over and over again. I can assue you 100% that this is perfectly normal. The first thing I noticed was his nose, and then his eyes. We are people. Im pretty sure I felt more awkward than she did! Find it very sad/creepy to chat up your subs with fake affection, I mean who are the kind of people to pay for this delusion? She said that it wasnt abnormal for the medical students to play with the genitalia of unconscious patients and that they would regularly discuss and make fun of the bodies of their patients. Was your exam in the US? Leave it up to the patients, but if some want to pass on gowns and other coverage and go au natural, let them. At my annual exams I am asked the undress gradually at different stages and eventually end up nude for the last few examinations. One such indicator is the number of teenage pregnancies. I dont have another physical therapist/sauna experience to compare this to, so not sure if him peeking in the window to see how I was doing was normal. Hi there, love hearing from French people in the US to get the flip side of things. I'm almost sad.'. No one else can tell, but even just the idea is so hot for me. Its really nice having a physical examination by two female medical specialists ( doctor and RN nurse) Although this in the U.S.A, both ladies are very good, professional and gentle with me, as a male. There are a few dishes that are okay, but the lack of strong spices or seasoning makes this something I don't enjoy much. The doctor is in a position of power and as the patient, you want to follow the doctors orders he/she is the educated one who is trying to help so its only normal to trust them. Suffice it to say Im NOT looking forward to my initial medical exam and the ones to follow! I have a relatively straight set of natural chompers on me, but I can't stand unnaturally straight teeth. I fall onto the floor and call my moms name. xD. I wish I had told the patients at the time that these comments are not appreciated. I was working a rehab unit one time and had to give a younger gentleman a suppository due to no bowel movement for 4 days. Kids acting like this is an everyday NBD kinda thing. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and that's a relief, because it reinforces the notion that in spite of any flaws, there is someone for everyone. Head to toe rain-gear. You really do have a nice consistency!. Hey I just had the most emarrassing exam ever.I went in to my local medi clinic to have a really bad ingrown hair looked at right under my You rock! Best Buddies Turkey Ekibi; Videolar; Bize Ulan; embarrassing urology exam 27 ub. Well, maybe its not normal for a doctor to ogle you (in any part of the world), but in France they definitely do NOT give you anything to cover up with no dignity I tell ya! document.getElementById( "ak_js_1" ).setAttribute( "value", ( new Date() ).getTime() ); Bienvenue! 28. Luckily I had my sports bra that I kept on but decided to head in sans underwear. It's one that just doesn't get old. Please read this section carefully. Being terrified as I was that my wife was in the process of delivering our firstborn, I helpfully offered up "Don't worry, some people pay good money for that." She looks uncomfortable. Discharge often isn't normal, and could mean an infection or an STD. When I was younger, I went to the doctor, and Im not sure why, but he had to see my dick for some reason. You can also have a friend or family member present during the exam, in addition to the trained assistant. I lost so much weight in the six months I lived there. Scary shit for an 18-year-old boy (or anyone, really). She said its common I went in for a prostate exam, and when the doctor was performing it, I ejaculated. Especially in front of a male student who was probably about 20 but looked like he was about 12 lol. I instantly started feeling that familiar tingle down low and knew I was in for some trouble. WebAnswer (1 of 11): When I had the experience of an induced erection it was done by a trained female nurse, not the urologist. We argue about how stupid it is to tell people to do shit you dont want them to do for a few minutes. It slowly went away. It did take some time stripping it all off,on a real cold day, but in the end They made me feel very natural being naked with them. Haha Im a guy (probably should have mentioned that). Surgical tech, I was in the OR prepping the patient for a bladder sling. I am NOT doing anything that is supposed to be pleasurable or having sex or taking anyone's virginity during exams. Not fun! She gently flipped my penis up and covered it with a towel so that just my scrotum was exposed, and that did it I had a full fledged hardon within 6 seconds. I remember them saying we arent getting any return. ", "I got Mexican food in Croatia. What could be the most humiliating medical moment of your life is just "Tuesday morning" for them - and in a way, that makes them even bigger heroes in our eyes. Taking risks. ", "Also, I ordered Fajitas and was served a quesadilla with bell peppers in it. ", "Im emotionally mature enough to know that Im not emotionally mature enough to have a partner that does Only Fans. Thanks Diane, yes I did pass. It can be embarrassing for an American guy too at times with a French lady doctor, yet, in the long part, I like being medically examined by this lovely French female doctor. The Australian people that were on the tour thought it was phenomenal.". Having said that, plenty of patients were willing to talk about their own mortifying experiences. My conversion to full nudity for medical examinations came a few years earlier at a full skin examination by a dermatologist. What would you say to a patient who is embarrassed about having the exam? My wife, who is awesome, accompanied me for support. He just jumped over and kept going. Hey I just had the most emarrassing exam ever.I went in to my local medi clinic to have a really bad ingrown hair looked at right under my testicles.Of course to my luck I had to get an older female doctor on call that day.Now I have always been afraid of getting an erection, and now my first female doctor ,for this lol.Anyways I when she came in and checked me everything went good,but then she said I need to follow her to the treatment room.Well then she had me take off my clothes and lay on the table with my feet in those things on the back of the table. Everyone is encouraged to see their own healthcare professional to review what is best for them. The person who is nice to you but isn't nice to the waiter isn't nice person. I mean if I was raised to have doctors just stand there (and not have privacy) while getting dressed, Id be used to it, but thats not how things are the US. My daughter hurt her ankle so my wife took her to a medical center. Its been a year since the last comment, and over two from the original post, but I want to point out that subcultures can differ markedly from the prevailing culture. There were a few more things like rotating my arms, hopping on each leg, and having to do a duck walk! So embarrassing! ", "Just feels creepy knowing this and then taking that money. High bridge of the nose. But at the doctor, I dont think its appropriate to strip down in front of the doctor without some semblance of privacy regardless of nationality. Aside from the surprise of not being given a gown to cover up with, everything went smoothly and was efficient and well run. Then I was walked We put trust in our doctors to do the right thing, whats necessary and not be perverts. OnlyFans has really become quite a phenomenon. First of all, I have never been to a doctor in France but have been to a fair number in the US. 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